• Immense sadness; loneliness
• Confusion
• Embarrassed
• Overwhelmed
• Misunderstood
•  Anger (At others, God, self)

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  The Process of Pet Loss Usually Involves the Following...

1. Truly feel your grief and feelings, and give it a voice.
2. Commemorate your pet, either in a memorial, painting, poem, prayer, or whatever you feel will be helpful to you.
3. Find a special place in your heart for your beloved pet, and make room for new animals to come in.
4. Redirect and channel your new energy to loving another animal who needs love, which will contribute to your healthier life and wellbeing. 

    

 There are many ways to celebrate the good times with our animals. But, often times there is not enough attention given to the sad, painful, and end-of -life issues with our animals.  You might feel as if there is nowhere to go when you have to deal with the difficult and painful issues of a sick or dying animal, or an animal who has died.  This is why I founded Animals Connect Us; so that you would have a place to find healing in your grief and in remembering your beloved pet.

You might feel confused and sad about your beloved pet, and there might be people in your life who don't understand, even those who are close to you. It is important to remember your feelings are natural. You might be concerned that your grief is so deep that it will go on forever. This is rare and many people benefit from talking and reminiscing about their beloved pet. Our animals have touched our lives and we want to share those stories, which is a testament to the love and bond to your animal.  I truly understand the loss of a beloved animal and want to provide support for you too. 
 

In Special Memoriam:

My beloved furbaby Boo-Boo Burbles Barton-Barrett died peacefully on February 6, 2009. She was my beloved companion for 17 1/2 years, and touched my life in ways that I never thought possible. Although only a tiny body of 5 pounds, she continues to be the inspiration for my work, as I continue to help others with their grief and honoring other animals as well.