I just got back from the veterinarian, and I'm heartbroken. My animal is very sick and I have to make a decision soon about putting my animal to sleep. How can you help me?
I hear that this is a very painful and difficult decision, and my heart truly goes out to you. When your beloved animal receives a terminal diagnosis, I will support you in making this very painful and difficult decision, as to when the time is right for euthanasia for you and your animal. I also provide guidance and help you to look at all the options. After the loss of a pet, I provide a safe place and an empathic ear as you share your feelings, memories, and thoughts of your beloved animal. I am available to help you commemorate and remember the impact your beloved pet had on your and your family's lives.
I feel like I should be able to handle this on my own. Am I going crazy?
Sometimes grief can feel this way. Your mind and your body have just experienced a tremendous loss. Many people have said that they don't have the same energy as they did before, or are forgetting things more easily, or are having problems sleeping. Sharing and talking about your grief can help.
I don't want to go "into therapy" for this. Can you still help me?
Absolutely. I am here to provide a safe place for you to share your memories and feelings about your beloved animal. Many people say they feel better from only a few sessions. However, should you choose, you may continue for as long as you need to. It is entirely your choice and as a counselor, I am here to support you through your decisions.
Other people just aren't understanding why I'm so sad and feeling so terrible. What can I do?
It is common to have people in your life who won't understand the bond and connection you have to your animal. It's important for you to know that for some people losing an animal is as painful as losing a person in their lives. This is why it is very important to take care of yourself and work through your grief.
I don’t have to put my animal to sleep, so how else can you help me?
I understand that your beloved animals are an important part of your family. We can discuss ways to improve the already strong bond between your pet and all the members in your family for a happy, healthy, and peaceful family.
What other services do you provide?
In addition to providing individual counseling, I also provide workshops, groups sessions, in-home sessions, and am a presenter at speaking engagements. (See the Services link above) I have also consulted with some organizations.
Why do you do what you do?
I am grateful to be able to provide professional support to those who are wanting to strengthen and remember the impact their beloved animals have had on their lives. I have had many animals who have positively affectly my life, as you have too. It is about celebrating these experiences and honoring the bond you have with your beloved animals.
As a lifetime animal lover and someone who has experience working with people and animals in various settings, it is a true privilege to honor your connection and to provide support at various stages with your pets.
